Apparently some folks are skeptical about multi-orgasmic women. There also seems to be a variety of myths and misconceptions regarding these elusive sirens. I'd like to set the record straight.

I am a multi-orgasmic woman. I can't tell you what my average or top number is because I don't keep count. Not only because I'm not interested in keeping score, but also because when I'm really getting off, my orgasms tend to run together in an intense stream of shudders and contractions and overwhelming full-body explosions. I'm getting wet just thinking about it . .

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There is no limit to how many orgasms I can have.

But frankly, my husband doesn't get a lot of credit for my orgasms. All he has to do is keep playing my softness, and he can play for hours without cumming, and that's his primary talent! However, I like to take charge of my orgasms and honestly I think that's the key for any woman. So ladies! My first bit of advice, therefore, is to masturbate. A lot. Play with your personal place. Use a vibrator. Use your fingers.

Explore your cunt! If you know how to get yourself off, you can have great sex with almost any man, provided he doesn't cum in a hurry. Now, while I'm playing, first I like to sit on his length and ride it like I'm in the rodeo! Seriously, being on top is a great way to control the angle of penetration. Personally, I love to grind on his length so his pelvic bone rubs against my personal place and then WOW! I'll come several times that way until I'm getting tired, then I'll lay down and tell him to give me a good thingying.

This is also when I get out my favorite toy: the bullet vibe. Every lady should have one of these! It's just small enough to place it on my personal place while he plays me hard and fast.

I used to like to use my fingers to play with my personal place while he played me, but I was actually wearing out my wristfingers! I have tendonitis issues.

Bullet vibe to the rescue! I can't begin to describe how intensely I climax when we play this way. I just lay back and focus on my private part and he plays me like mad and talks dirty to me because I'm his slutty little wife, you know! and that bullet vibe just doesn't quit and neither do I! I sincerely believe that most women are capable of having multiple orgasms. I think it is very much related to a women's body image and how comfortable she is with her own sexuality. Inhibitions don't lend well to great orgasms. Therefore, in this sense it also can be important to have a partner that you trust utterly and completely. And constant pressure from a man does NOT make a woman any less inhibited.

I think it's best not to make sex like a contest - don't count her orgasms, just focus on letting her relax and succumb to the sensations in her body. Relaxation is key! However, I'd also like to add that some women simply aren't so fortunate, and that many women have a lot of sexual hangups thanks to our society's incredibly unhealthy attitudes toward sexuality.

Not to mention the disturbing frequency of sexual abuse. Any woman who suffers this sort of trauma will understandably have some difficulty exploring her sexuality in a healthy manner. My heart goes out to them.