For most people the act of talking during sex is quite intimidating.

Usually a person is afraid they'll say the wrong thing and kill the mood, or reveal a little too much about their desires. If you're willing to overcome this fear you will find that an aural addition can incredibly heighten the sensual stimulation you're both receiving. First, be sincere. Nothing can kill the mood faster than scripted verse. Be honest about what you are saying and feeling.

Your partner will definitely be able to notice if you're not. Talk about what you are feeling. This is an easy way to segue into verbal foreplay. If something feels good, tell your partner, and be specific about it. If you like it when they do something make sure to let them know.Talk about what you would like. Take to heart the old saying, "If you ask for it you just might get it." Tell your partner what you enjoy.

For example, "I like it when you..." or "Do it like...

" Tell a fantasy.

Open up a bit and tell your partner one of your fantasies. This can be a great turn on especially if you're whispering into their ear while you're making love.

Act out a character role. Sometimes being yourself can be intimidating. One way to get around that is to act in character. There are many role-playing options such as doctornurse, slavemaster, teacherstudent, coprobber, etc. You may find it easier to approach verbal arousal while in character.