Back in 1991, before the internet and swinging web sites like Adult FriendFinder, there were a few bulletin boards for basically the same purpose, getting couples together. I happened on to one of them once and after chatting with a fellow he invited us to attend the Golden Circle Couples Club in Denver. I really didnt expect my wife to say yes, but she surprised me, noting that it would be good to meet some new friends she wasnt sure about the swinging part yet. We went, met the couple that invited us and got together that night for our first swinging experience. It was actually pretty low key, when it was all over we both were surprised at how normal it felt, and yet how exciting to was to see each other with another partner.

I guess I should back up, way up, to the first part of our relationship. We met in college a small church related college in the Midwest USA. We actually we met the first day of orientation, but it was a rather forgetful meeting and we really didnt starting talking for several months. At Christmas break I was flying out of the town that she lived in and caught a ride with a friend. Having a layover she invited me out to see the town things came together and we kissed for the first time, but nothing else happened. Back at college after the break things got hot and heavy and before long we started sleeping together. From the start, we had one of those rare relationships that was more on the level of deep friendship rather than one of possessing each other. I didnt and dont see her as a thing to be had, but am more honored that she wants to be with me.

We have always figured that it wasnt important who you dance with during the dance, but who you left with at the end of the night. During the years of college she saw several other men and maybe even slept with some I dont know and never figured it mattered if I were to ask. But we finished the dance together and have been happily married for over 20 years. Back in Denver, we attended the GC club, and others off and on for about 4 years, meeting several great couples, some not so great. The GC club was an off-premise club, more for meeting other couples than actually doing something right there. The parties were monthly affairs, held at a motel night club reserved for members and guest couples only.

We did go out to the Retreat in Denver a time or two it was an on-premise club with a huge hot tub and several party rooms.

Most of the clubs around are couples only and they add a bit of security and comfort with that policy. With this post and maybe others to follow Ill try to put into words what we experienced. It often strikes both of us very funny when people at the office or at straight parties we meet try to shock someone by talking about sexy fantasies and things that they heard that other people have done.

And of course that they would or could do better you know, the Id play her all night long and make her beg for more lines and such. We would smile and know that they normally are the type we run into that completely fall apart when the clothes hit the floor and some good looking woman is standing naked in front of them waiting for the play of her life.

Real life swinging is so much more excitement and better than stories and boastful bullshit that many men cant get it up when confronted with it true fact. If there is a downside to swinging Id have to say that it really takes a lot to keep your mind from wandering during the day. I see an attractive woman or couple on the street and now instead of wondering what she does for work or such, I wonder if she plays around quite distracting actually. One of the memorable house parties we were invited to was down in southern Colorado. The hostess and her husband was probably still is a successful business woman, owning her own company. I think this is part of the story because she has such an air of confidence about her. One of the most attractive things a woman can have going for her is attitude.

The party shaped up as three couples together, dinner out and drinks back at the house. While the guys were talking about unimportant things the girls were getting undressed and getting busy. I happened to look into the bedroom to see two of them with strap-ons on and they were starting to enjoy doing each other. We watched this for awhile and finally slipped in to pick a partner. I ended up with the hostess, a fiery redhead with just a hint of fur left after a shave. She is an outstanding example of a woman. Anyway, we slipped off to a quiet room and I ate dessert for what seemed hours then we screwed around for awhile. She was having fun and I was too, knowing she was.

We started to hear the others back out in the kitchen and we joined them.

My wife slipped up next to me and I wiped away the warm sticky cum-juice that was leaking out of her softness with my finger and she just smiled.

So here we were, six of us standing at the kitchen bar, all butt naked and smelling of fresh sex. We were all comfortable enough with each other to joke and play grab-ass. I remember coming up behind D the 3rd couples female and rubbed up against her naked backside with my length that was now getting hard again the other guys looked over and suggested that I just lay her over the counter top and let them watch me slip into her soft place. With and a suggestion like that and no objection from her what would any guy do? She had a perfect soft place I mean perfect. I reached down and with my fingers moved up some of the cum in her softness that Dave had just left there. So here is the mental picture I remember. I am standing behind a perfect soft place with a raging hard on - I am using another mans not her husbands cum to lubricate her up so that I can soft place-play her in front of my wife and four others including this ladies husband all while leaning up against a pure white kitchen counter.

She was hot not just good looking, but I mean inside her soft place was like a furnace. She was bouncing around trying to make eye contact with everyone and was loving being the center of attention knowing how just dam sexy this soft place-playing was for them to watch.

I dont remember who came first or even if she did, but when I unloaded into her I nearly fell to my knees.

She tightened up and there was no way I was going to get that hard of a thingy out of that tight of an soft place without her letting go. We all just stood there laughing and enjoying the sights and smells of the moment. She finally loosened up and let me retire. That was one of the most memorable sexual experiences for me ever.

That is what swinging and sex is all about for me.

I enjoy the openness to explore and share it with my wife and friends. That and the real experiences are so much better and than just viewing porn and reading play stories.

The key for us is not being jealous or wondering if some other guys plays better than I do, or if my wife finds him attractive I know who will get the last dance and whose bed she will wake up in. So yes, if you were wondering, I did get to dance with my wife too that night. There is nothing better than slipping into a woman you love, hot with another mans cum inside her unless it is her softness with two or more loads inside! As a couple we dont play much anymore, maybe again someday when she finds the interest again.

Until then, I keep replaying these memories in my mind. wacker